Men and Women

I don't understand why men and women were created so differently. It causes so much pain and suffering and it makes life much harder on all of us. Most men, especially the younger they are do not want to get married. Of course most of the older ones don't either. All women want to get married since birth. Men of course hate this and try to avoid it, but they don't avoid women, they just try to avoid marriage. Men will love a woman and still be avoiding marriage...where is the justice in this for women? Women worry that it is them, or that the guy doesn't care about them. They also worry that it is never going to happen. This is also how people get into bad situations and do bad things. Why can't men just want commitment? Why can't it just be easy for them? Or why can't women just act like men and not care...oh wait...men def would NOT be able to handle their own treatment...but you know what...I wish that women could stop putting up with men's inability to make commitment (myself included). When does this cycle end?