Sabr

Unfortunately the man I want to marry is being extremely slow in the process of our marriage. People tell me conflicting opinions such as "if he really wanted it he would do it quickly" or "give him time, be patient". I am very confused about what to do. I know his heart is pure and he wants to marry me, however I feel he is scared of marriage or of the pressure to do things in the Saudi form. I don't know if it is wise to marry someone who is scared of marriage, however, is it wise to let someone you love go?